We will be able to understand a very good management lesson with the help of the below story. There was a boy who used to sleep with his grandmother and always used to wet his bed. His parents tried to control his habit in all possible ways and later decided to listen to him and act according to his wish. The little boy promised not to wet his bed during night if his parents would buy a new bed of his choice and allow him to sleep separately. His parents tried to listen to him and got all his demands and to their surprise, the little boy stopped wetting his bed.
In the same way, you should respect the need of decision making of your employees, partners and family members. You should always promote your subordinates to take their own decision. When they own the decision and execute the plan the results will always be successful.